Learner’s Permit for Life: A folk journalist’s ticket to ride

The key to the future of the world is finding the optimistic stories and letting them be known.               Pete Seeger

 

From the book "Twentieth Century Etiquette An Up-To-Date Book For Polite Society" by AnnIe Randall White
“There are few who do not ardently desire to become good conversationalists.”  From the book “Twentieth Century Etiquette An Up-To-Date Book For Polite Society” by Annie Randall White

 

So what does a folk journalist do? And do you care?

That’s a lesson I learned out there: if you don’t care about your fellow conversant, why carry such a heavy microphone? (Although, yes, flash drive cards have gotten much lighter, I learned at the feet of folks carrying Wollensaks* and other portably massive recording machiens.)

Why stick a mic smack dab into the snoot of every Mr. and Mrs. America? Just to get a story?

Well, yes.

You’ll find them on every block. Spending forty years taking it to the streets of this great entertainment nation — not living in the street, though I’ve interviewed the houseless and as Dylan said, Who aint homeless? — but as a foreign correspondent too, in Athens and Jerusalem, your friendly neighborhood folk journalist has been fired out of newsrooms from New York to San Francisco.

Also from Los Angeles to Santa Monica.

That’s the nature of the business.   But you learn some things. A folk journalist gets nothing less than a learner’s permit for life.**

The world opens when you open with a question. Folk journalists are so freewheeling with questions, they can come off more as “suggestions.” They come with low-expectations.  You are trying to create a space (ala RAM DASS; more about him later) where a person can feel comfortable to chat.

I’ve learned so much on mic. And off, of course, with the result being slapped, kicked (Ahh, Athens!), chased out of shops, run down streets by cops. All in the service of asking for that story never heard before.

The famous quote by E.M. Forster comes to mind: “Only connect.”

How?

By presenting voices from America. (More about STUDS TERKEL later) One records people professionally for radio, but also, any average woman-on-the-street-travelling-marshmallow-face-painted-every-kid-who-has-a-podcast gets to pop the vox populi by posing questions. Creating a space by invading someone else’s.  The rightly timed question can bring a moment to life that might help a fellow find meaning in their own.

 

One of the beauties of this job is nobody knows where a conversation can lead.

How to make your great big convo begin?

Are you taking notes? Because poet Robert Bly (More on him, etc.) has the answer!

Bly says, “Ask a question. And listen.”

 

QUESTIONS

As a folk journalist, some approaches I’ll open with:

“What was the best year of your life?”

“How do you handle stress?”

“What is your conception of God?”

“What’s the richest you’ve ever been?”

“What is the most beautiful word in the (fill in) language?”

“What does this line mean: And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make.

“Do you have a podcast?”

“How do you like your Burning Man experience thus far?”

 

TIP

Here’s a simple way to start (See Post on “Quick Openers”): “Need any help with that?”

Kind of an easygoing outreach that oft-times returns a response your way and who knows what’s next.

Because after that? (Don’t get nervous now) We’re off and running! And walking and talking and listen…

 

Art of Listening: A good talker makes a good listener. You pay your listeners by a few "brilliant flashes of silence" now and then, the compliment of supposing that they have something to say, and that you are desirous of listening to them.
The Art of Listening: A good talker makes a good listener…. You pay your listeners by a few “brilliant flashes of silence” now and then, the compliment of supposing that they have something to say, and that you are desirous of listening to them.

 

http://www.clydesight.com/wollensak_reel_to_reel_tape_recorder/Wollensak_history.html

** A learner’s permit is a state-approved pre-driver’s license issued at 15-16 after proper study behind the wheel

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Building Better Mouth Raps

Technology has replaced culture. But people haven’t noticed it’s gone yet.  

Exene Cervenka of the band X

 

Interviewing red carpet style
Interviewing a great screenwriter red carpet style

 

Ready to roll? Ready to roll your tongue and take WalkyTalky as your battle-blasted tool kit (at least five tools, in case MLB is interested)? My aim is to arm you with effective verbal lines of attack and retreat so that the amazing back-and-forth which makes conversations worth conducting in the first place, will feature you at your dazzling best.

Ready to play? Make a play? Be a playmaker?

As a folk journalist, I’ve always needed the quick and lively turns of phrase to help connect with folks I meet out in that non-stop networked-up world of there-aint-no-stopping-them-now big broadcast bluster. Whew, right? I’m hoping that WT.US* can likewise put a charge into your own back-and-forth badinage and b.s.

How?

First by employing sentences to power up yours and mine’s ancient art of conversation piece into a rebooting re-beautification project. You know how hard it is, right, you find yourself on line or off the cuff, negotiating your way through today’s hypestertextual state of the art conversationals that Say whaaaaa?

A failed state, alas. But here’s when it hit me: I was nursing another of those fabulous nitrogen-tapped cold brew on draft (heavy on the yak butter) nespressos at Open Latte. You know the joint, located on the border between Santa Monica and the rest of the continent.

And suddenly I realized: We live in incredible times.

The lesson is how to live them?  By getting busy, hurry hurry hurrying to turn this crazy life into lively conversation? Let’s get our Convo on, etc?

Well, as it turns out, one of the best ways to do that, is by Slowwwing down.

I was having a conversation with my grandfather. He’d just turned 100. I tried to impress him by dropping some Shakespeare.

“Time is of the essence. Isn’t that right, Papa John?”

“Maybe time is the essence,” Papa John replied.

 

Next: A Learner’s Permit For Life!

 

WTUS not affiliated with any radio stations, yet.

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Words to Get Going With? (Milton Berle said he spent the first 30 minutes of his act clearing his throat)

“In a world where the rules are breaking down, where the world is changing so fast in all directions that a lot of people have a sense of bewilderment. You don’t actually know what the rules are anymore.” Salman Rushdie

 

 

Clever Ideas Happen Here

Hello again out there, Hank here, welcome to you all, to “WalkyTalky,” which is what I am, really, my reason for being here as a human, because I walk around town and I talk to people as a folk journalist, listening to them. Conducting conversations for NPR, newspapers, magazines, sites for sore eyes.

Pretty much any electrical outlet in the storm.

Times are tough, right tough for folks looking for a good talk. Am I right?

Like my friend Kris in North Dakota says, “the thing is” technology connects us in so many new ways. At the same time things appear to be pulling apart everywhere we look. But just as a few fantastic discoveries have changed the world, I’m confident there’s enough time left to discover another.

Imagine the voice of the radio announcer, stirring up underneath himself such stirring music that aides him as he intones: And, as we find ourselves more and more forever facing books on computers and faces inside our phones…friends, do you tend to, in the face of it:

 1) Shut down and just say nothing at all?

2) Bark at it all from the outside you chirping tweety bird maddog blogging machine that you most wannabe?

or are you finding yourself

3) Disconnecting, into what Beatle John called, Iiiiiii…solation.*

4) Taking up an armful of words in order to fire back, and thusly: Engage!

Because here comes your chance to hitch a ride on the road to better handling a confusing world’s daily swirl of events.

How?

By using words to take action with!

People are always excited when I tell them I’m writing this web log. Because they see new conversations everywhere they look and work on their iChatty Cathy podcasting home-studio screens of some sort or another sort. They agree with me that modern youth’s socialization doesn’t prepare them for presenting one’s self well in the oldest form of the art: face-to-face conversation.

Another way of saying this is, Can we tawk?

WalkyTalky will present fun ways to forget your social fears and forge ahead, screenlessly happy again.

How?

By helping you converse – take part in actual conversations— by pulling from your quiver the sharpest words fireable — zing! fling! sing!– for any occasion. Perfectly useable at any appropriate (and inappropriate) time, by employing at-the-ready retorts, references from movies, songs, TV cartoons from 1964 and yes, by going even deeper (like that’s possible), you’ll win your life with words. Some of these things you’ve never heard before (thanks ghod!) but can one day utilize to your own delight, because I’m telling you folks, We’ve got a great big Convo and baby we’re gonna ride! [SING-A-LONG PARODY OF “CONVOY” FROM MOVIE “CONVOY” TK]

So let’s roll.

Why and why now?

Because as Beck sings, My time is a piece of wax fallin’ on a termite/who’s choking on the splinters.

http://www.lyricsfreak.com/b/beck/loser_20015293.html

(If you have time, check out this hilarious video of it * *)

Yes, because time’s a-wastin’,  just say the word.

Words are the way to share time together, most excellently and well-played, sir!

And they’re surely some of the best ways to continue a conversation…

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Fingerpuppet Freud interview amuses Amtrak passengers aboard Southwest Chief

 

*www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bnls10DO1Y

 

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What is a folk journalist?

Feeling Nostalgic For A Good Cuppa Conversation

 

In action
Typical folk journalist conversation with typically friendly North Dakotan

The other night I was on a panel with three authors. Sponsored by IWOSC (Independent Writers of Southern California), the topic was “Nostalgia,” and when the moderator turned to me and I leaned into the microphone, this came out: “I’m nostalgic for good conversation.”

Well, the evening proceeded and indeed, a fascinating back-and-forth ensued, with writers trading stories from the biographies they’d completed about old-time Hollywood figures like Spike Jones, Cecil B. DeMille, the Marx Brothers, even Elizabeth Montgomery from the show Bewitched.

At one point, after moderator Bob Birchard said he saw Richard III on a TV show called Omnibus in the 1950s, I threw in: “Ever wonder why with all these new channels today, there’s no Shakespeare kind of Bard-TV thing presenting all the films made from his plays?” Which led to a conversation about theater vs film vs TV, etc.

A folk journalist doesn’t just ask questions. He makes suggestions. Suggestions that instead of getting simple “yes” or “no” answers, lead to something more: creative conversation.

“Feel the buzz of the holidays in here?” I said today to someone at Peet’s.

In this web log I’ll show you what helps me, as a folk journalist, connect with people. How when we walk and talk our way daily through a jungle of what passes like a parade of people here, there and everywhere — mixing metaphors just like that may in fact help you engage in life at your dazzling best.

Ready to play?

“How?” you’re still wondering?

I’m getting to it.

In Gloria Steinem’s new book My Life On The Road, she calls for, “in-person politics and face-to-face organizing. She extols the virtues of conversation circles in arousing empathy and creating connections, but insists that such breakthroughs are simply not possible online. ‘The miraculous and impersonal Internet is not enough,’ she writes.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2015/11/15/books/review/gloria-steinems-my-life-on-the-road.html?ref=review

Ann Friedman, reporter on the piece, says Steinem is “foolish to play down” the potential of conversing on the web.

Do you agree? With whom? And why?

Next Time: Saying Whaaaaaaa? Let’s Talk About How We Try and Talk with each other, because I mean, really, who doesn’t like a good talking to, right?

Thanks to fellow panelists Robert S. Bader, Jordan R. Young, Herbie J Pilato
Thanks to IWOSC folks over there:  Jordan R. Young, Herbie J Pilato, Robert S. Bader, Gary Young, Flo Selfman, moderator Bill Birchard
IWOSC
http://www.iwosc.org

 

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Storylistening

Storylistening: A guide to creating clever conversation in our age of screens

 

As the Egyptians say, Welcome you are welcome.

My name is Hank and I’m a recovering folk journalist.

Huh?

Like, you’re wondering, what the heck is that?

Well, for starters, a folk journalist is a person who walks around and talks to people, asking them questions.

He gets into conversations and people tell their stories.

A folk journalist is in a sense, a story listener.

He suggests a topic, conversations get created. And I’m here to help you do that — have terrific conversation.

Why?

Because in a career spent writing, reporting and producing stories for NPR/APM/PRI/BBC/CBS radio shows across this vast land of ours…guess what? I’m finding it harder to have a decent conversation!

What’s going on here? Just yesterday I read on the front page of the New York Times how, “…the rapid spread of mobile technology has redefined the way people talk, the way they shop, the way they walk down the street.”

Do you find this to be true?

The purpose of this web log will be to help you learn new, fun ways to talk with friends, family and other fine folk, face-to-face.

Face 2 Face.

Yes. Instead of letting our devices devise ways of deceiving us into denying ourselves the pleasure of human back-and-forth badinage, let WalkyTalky be your guide to Surviving This Age of Screens.  

How?

I can help; I’ve got skills! On this site: all kinds of tips, pix, quotes and audio-visual bippity-bop I’ve gathered from years of Q & A’s with popular figures like Allen Ginsberg and Woody Allen, Wavy Gravy, Avner the Eccentric, Bob Newhart, you name ’em. From NYC to San Francisco, LA and Detroit, we’ll hold forth with Shakespearean clowns and writers for the Marx Bros and Bye Bye Birdie.  Children and my grandfather when he turned 100. In the background, a sprinkling of guitar from an original member of Jefferson Starship, and cartoon drawings from the wondrous Flash Rosenberg.  Also weaving in and out: wisdom from world class conversationalists on topics like, “What is your conception of God?” “How do you define love?” “What’s the richest you’ve ever been?” “Where were on November 22, 1963?” and “Whatever happened to Elroy Jetson?”

So welcome to the WalkyTalky and join the conversation. Next time: Time’s-a-wastin’ so let’s get gabbing.

Yes friends, “We’ve got a great big Convo, truckin’ through the night,” as that song from the 70s sort of sang.

Seen recently on billboards all over Las Vegas:

No Acepte Imitaciones !
As the man says: “No Acepte Imitaciones !”

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